@jsw3883 Quite a lot.
I actually paid for 95% of our apartment because I earned more money.
When we divorced, I made sure she got %50 of it anyway (Note we were married and living in CHina, so I did not have to do this) because she worked really hard with the children and I wanted to make sure she was provided for.
Then covid came and I was forced to come back to Australia with the children. So now I'm a single dad with two teens...
Now she lives rent free in the apartment in China, whereas I am a renter in Australia again...and as I'm old now (over 60) I always will be.
I'm a bit sad about it but ..the apartment is supposed to be sold when both kids have turned 18. That's part of our divorce agreement; unless BOTH parties agree not to sell then it must be sold.
But now...I'm not sure if I want to. Maybe I should just leave it for her to live in if she wants to, she's over 50 now herself...still thinking about it.