@medieval_lady83 I am sorry to hear that. My version of fun was mainly to spend time with friends. It’s easy especially when your social circle is similar to yours. Some things of my 20s I relish:
1. Going on a jog with friends and registering and finishing 5k, 10k and half marathon
2. Eating chats, coconut water etc., with friends after long discussions
3. Playing online games, that is age of empires with friends. It used to be in one of our houses. Small house but we were alll generally ok with that
4. I invested in a bicycle paying 10k and I rode around 14k kms on that before I sold it off. It saved some money off commute, helped me make newer friends, a hobby that wasn’t much expensive but tons of memories. I even made a little commission (bicycle accessories) through referring folks buying bicycles
5. I did two amazing trips. Were very expensive at that time but best memory to this date:
One trip in 2011: cost 29k
Another trip in 2012: cost 32k
Numerous small trips where I used to spend around 5 to 10k every year
The years where I didn’t run or cycle I joined gym and didn’t enjoy. I am not very fit and I regret that