@resjudicata Are baba I didn't know you couldn't live life in your own terms in such societies
.. I live in my dad's house 2 bhk . So rent amount im saving in Sukanya samriddhi and ppf . Me n dad plan our insurance and finances accordingly.
Father retired from active service in 2012. Continues to work . I started working in 2016 full time due to post grad , superspecialisation and all that . Post student loan and everything.. now in credit free for 2 years.
We bought our first car for my father this year Jan 2024. Im 40 my dad's 71. I don't know how to drive a 4 wheeler. Use my wife's scooter or metro for hospital commute .
I dont intend to buy/rent house given my current circumstances . Major saving is for daughters future . Then if necessary i will plan for my 'own' house .