Need advice re: daughter still in school becomes the family bank + investment plan

[brojonathan]

@rachelr15 ATRAM is the easiest of the bunch, you just need a verified gcash account.

 

[resjudicata]

@rachelr15 add financial abuse to that. move out! spend the money you lend(give) them on your rent and bills. you'll have freedom and peace of mind pa~

 

[anajtheone]

@rachelr15 At the very least, have your bank accounts and investments under your name only - not joint accounts/joint ownership with them. And see if you can clarify with or instruct your scholarship unit to make sure that under no circumstances is your allowance to be given to them without your express consent

 

[godisanamazinggod]

@rachelr15 The first time you brush off their guilt-tripping, it'll feel weird but good. Feed off of that good feeling.

 

[rachelr15]

@godisanamazinggod Thinking about it, yeah. There used to be a good feeling. Like a real child finally fulfilling a parent's request. I thought it was natural. That its ok since I was able to help. I should've known better.

Thank you for pointing this out to me. Thank you.

 

[smileybit]

@rachelr15 There really is nothing more you can do until you move out. Hopefully, you can save soon enough so you can get away from them. Good luck, OP!

 

[religionofevolution]

@rachelr15 OP wag mo papabayaan sarili mo. Better go somewhere else and focus on your studies than be stressed about their treatment towards you.

 

[helenk579]

@rachelr15 Move out. Talk to them about it. Explain it. Then act on it.

I’m just glad that my parents and in-laws are the opposite. So I don’t have to do the talking and explaining.

 

[asmapandor]

@rachelr15 Leave as soon as you can. They're dead weight and toxic. If you want a better life for yourself and your own future family, how you deal with them will be definitive of all that.