@cytkeenan I know that this is not what you asked for, but don't be in such a hurry to leave. The biggest issue with parental relationships is being so much in a hurry to go that we forget to prepare, or don't prepare as well as we truly should to be able to sustain ourselves. I wish that someone had told me this. If you truly want to leave home, don't save up to go shack up with friends because it never works. Instead, like other have said, work hard and go off to school. College is not for everyone, but you have to go to know. In my opinion, this is where you get your first real taste of independence and you can make this exciting too! Working the hours that you are, you can put that money towards purchases for going off to school. This will take the load off your mom if finances have been an issue, and your first real taste of independence and responsibility. Take it from me: I went and got a job at 18 but thought that independence tasted to good, that instead of going off to school, I signed a lease with my sister and friends... got caught up with boys, and being able to do whatever I wanted, that I spent that entire year in a dead-end job, having sex, drinking, and ultimately derailing my plans. I am 25 now... and I am finishing up college, but it took many years, dead end jobs, and two children to get it right. Don't be like me. Listen to my advice and you can avoid the trials and tribulations and go straight to learning the valuable lesson.