Am I wrong to believe that my partner buying a house with his mom, plus getting a van to live in, is a terrible idea?

[spinnaker]

@oneservant No, sounds like a borderline scam. Do things the right way, buy when you're ready, don't try to skip steps.

 

[zango11]

@oneservant How do you feel about dating someone who lives in a van, owns a house but not really, but pays the mortgage on a house to the point of being house poor and having no money left over every month.

If this was who he was on day 1 would you have continued to date him?

 

[bob4192]

@oneservant Walk away.