@arbie5788 Just wanted to chime in and say that despite probably feeling like you’re behind or have wasted time etc, you’re not alone
Ive got a bachelors and a masters (at… great HECS expense) that I no longer work in the same field/industry as.
Starting from scratch in a new field in my 30s obviously wasn’t the plan, but Im happier for it.
If you don’t have a solid idea of what you’d like to do (again, super normal imo) Id suggest doing some of that good old fashioned looking inward.
What do you enjoy? I mean on a higher level, eg for me this boiled down to ‘I enjoy solving problems, but not the exact same problems repeatedly’.
What are your strengths?
What have you disliked about previous/current roles?
Talk things out with your partner and friends for their insight. Maybe even a counsellor/psych if you need.
Lastly its perfectly fine to have ‘just a job’. Whether it’s while you figure out your true calling, or as a career. Sometimes, a lot of the time, a job is simply a way to fund the life you want to live outside of it.
Best of luck reddit stranger, you got this