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@perplexedperry Because neither of us agree with abortion, and by the time we found out she was pregnant, it was already way past 12 weeks, so it wasn't an option.

@perplexedperry It's not like we planned for a 4th kid to be on the way. We had a slip-up and the protection failed.

@perplexedperry Are you serious?! That is in no way an option. Especially not at 5 month into the pregnancy already.

@wagrod We're quite happy together. We discuss everything openly, and talk through any disagreements in a civil, or even kindly way, until we come up with a solution. It's always "Us Vs. The Problems". Never "Her Vs. Me Vs. The problems".

@tara74 We live in Port Elizabeth. Right now she pays the rent because I only started working in the last week of March. It's around R3500 pm. My mom lives in Alberton, and she is struggling just as much, as is. And my wife doesn't have parents. We live on our own.

Ah, okay. My bad. I overslept, given I was up late brainstorming our financial situation. I'm a TIG Welder. Experienced but not qualified yet, but will be. I know that the salary for what I'm doing is low, but that IS partially my fault as I lowballed myself when asked how much I'm looking at...

@greenleaf62 There are? Hmm. . . But then how would I go about getting dude to actually get one, and make some money to contribute towards what are, legally, his kids

@rgvbaptist The father of those kids is serving a life sentence somewhere in Capetown. He got arrested about a year ago for some crazy bullshit, so unfortunately, that's not an option

@amanda37 We didn't plan for another kid. We had a slip-up and the protection failed. Her family can't help, as she hasn't got any to speak of, and my family is miles away, and unfortunately can afford to help us out in any way, shape, or form.

@fridaytony01 Unfortunately, not possible. He's in jail doing life

So long story short is, I'm 28, and my wife, 27, has 3 kids, ages 7, 5 & 2 years old, from a previous relationship (I won't go into detail) and we're expecting another (ours) in 4 months time. She works Mondays to Fridays from 8 to 5 as a florist, and she earns roughly R7200 pm. I just started...