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@perpetuah You have a limited timeline, he does not. If he’s in a better place financially in 5 years he can go find someone new and have a kid. You don’t have that option. I hope he’s a great guy and he’d never do that to you, but it’s a reality that he is the only one with flexibility here...

@seewithgreatereyes If this is work related, and it sounds like it is you NEED to handle this through workmen’s comp. State disability payments time out much faster than workmen’s comp. You need to make sure this is categorized appropriately to ensure your employer pays for the PT and you...

@megkh22 As long as he’s ok with being fired on the spot if someone finds out I guess he may think it’s worth rolling the dice…he should just make sure that the work study isn’t tied to any other financial aid he qualified for. Right now making $17 without working probably feels great to him...

@jesusreigns4ever Totally get that, life is about balance!

@jesusreigns4ever Congrats on the raise. Another thing to consider is in CA you can ask for your salary range and your employer legally has to provide it. If you’re fully proficient in your role but paid below midpoint you can ask for a salary adjustment to market. Our 40’s and 50’s are our...

@jesusreigns4ever Ahhh ok I think I have a better sense of who you work for, and I have a fairly robust understanding of corporate compensation structures. Make sure you’re really setting yourself up for promotions when the roles open, obviously you can’t force it but make sure you’re in a...

@jesusreigns4ever Considering what you’ve come back from you’re in great shape. By 45 the goal is 3x your annual income in retirement savings so you’re a little light there but nothing terrible. I know this sounds crazy to some who would be in great shape with 140k, but for a family of 3 in...