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@alwayscurious I think perhaps he feels that I do. This is a good discussion point for me to raise with him

@trang1966 This is a great perspective, thank you

@resjudicata To clarify - together over 25yrs, but not legally married. Kids house and all the trimmings, so essentially married in the eyes of the law, just not the piece of paper. We often refer to each other as husband and wife because “boyfriend” just sounds odd at this point.

@labonall It doesn’t apply for the most part, but the sentiment is right. He would love a “live now, you only die with money in the bank” type of life, whereas I want to be in a position to save shit tonnes so we can live now without borrowing for it.

@labonall This is a good perspective too, thank you

My partner and I have been together a long time. Our earnings have always been shared. There is no ‘my money’ and ‘his money’ it’s all our money. Currently, I earn $170k p.a., and he has just started earning $100k p.a. We have debt, expenses, and a mortgage. I manage our finances and we live...